NOT JUST ANOTHER YEAR-2011

Dear 2011, you were a wonderful and a very remarkable year in my life. You brought everything in my life that I dreamt of in the beginning of this year. As said in my previous New Year blog post, it was supposed to be a very crucial year in my life. And so it was. I had my internship, my CAT exam and placements in this year. And thank to the almighty God that all ended in good. I got a foreign internship in Bangkok, hopefully going to score good in CAT exam and got placed in first phase of placement. Hence all well that ends well.

It was also very remarkable year for many other reasons. India won its 2^nd Cricket World Cup, Sachin scored his 99^th ton (though I was expecting him to complete the century of centuries), Osama Bin Laden got killed, Anna’s campaign against corruption and a lot of other remarkable things. It is a year that I will carry with me for the rest of my life. This whole year I managed to remain single. So no headache of serious commitments. Apparently I also got ditched from my pseudo GF on the very last day of this year, that too on a message which said 
“Sahil Saini…itz d last day f year…n I want to end everything here….tatzz oll I hv to say…I dnt hv ny xplainatns fr dz…so goodbye…m srry cz I hv hurted u bt I cnt b wid u…..oll I want to start a new beginning frm tommrw…hate me or love me… it doesn’t matter…hv a nyc lyf ahead.. gud luck fr d future…take care…”

Anyways I moved on in less than an hour. Not that I wanted to but I had to. Afterall she herself said that she thought me as a fucking matured. Didn’t she?

Anyways 2011 is gone and it’s time to look forward for another even year.  I already had a great start by taking a week off from college and coming home on very first day of this year. So much in mind for this year already. Not much resolutions but gonna read and write a lot. Keep your fingers crossed and hope for the best. Who knows I might come up with a novel this year?

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2011

Before midnight

Tomorrow morning as we all wake up in our bed, we are neither here to remember the immense beautiful moments of just went 365 beautiful glorious days, nor we are here to mourn the days which we want to revert back deep somewhere into our hearts. Life is all about moving on, and all of us will move on burying this year too along with the previous ones deep inside our hearts, only to revive those moments at some time. No matter whether this year was great for you or was very painful, it will be forgotten and will be faded in the history pages.

Resolutions – I know no one fulfills any but still it gives me a sigh to finally have some.

I am not going to waste even a second in this year. Keeping yourself busy keeps your mind from all the creepy idle thoughts and helps all your work done in time and with great efficiency.

This year is going to be the most important and my full career will be decided in this year. I have my intern and placement and cat exam in this year.

I will read a lot in this year. It has been correctly said that books are our best friends. Plus reading them really benefits us a lot.

I will write a lot. I am going to do some serious blogging, apart from love and emotional crap.

After midnight

A thought : Time flows at a miraculous speed. Isn’t it?

Today is a special day. Why wouldn’t it be? It is the first day of the year 2011.

It is the day of hope and inspiration for a lot of people who had decided to do a lot of good things in this year. It is the day to make a lot of resolutions and act upon them, to wish and hug your dear ones, the day when you can finally stop moaning over your previous days and can start your life from a new end. While many of us had a splendid bash of this New Year at the midnight, I was just lying in my bed ready to sleep while the clock ticked 12.

 

In retrospect: the year 2010

My greatest regret for this year was that I didn’t click many photos. So this year I am going to click lot of photos as memoirs.

I have learnt that many of the wrong decisions related to my emotional life have been taken by me by waking up till late in the night when I really have nothing to do. So I would keep myself busy during such weak and soft hours of the day.

Never fall for or get serious for any girl. Not because this is not the right age to fall in true love but also because you will lose all fun plus it will jeopardize your career. Never propose a girl in your life, atleast not now. Start using the word “like” more than the word “love”. Believe me it changes everything for good. Don’t ever try to define your relation with any girl, either. Some things are best going when allowed them to go the way it is. Let the time decide the course of your relation.

Your time will pass very quickly like this year. Manage your life accordingly.

Don’t eat too much of junk. It spoils your health.

Life is beautiful. Enjoy each and every moment of it. These are really the best days of my life.

Well overall the year 2010 was wonderful. I mean seriously! Whatever happened in this year, good or bad, I learnt a lot from it. I had experienced hellnuma new and different things in this year. Plus I guess my thought process has gone a drastic reversal, in a good manner. Now I see everything-(say it life, friends, love, my career, love, anything) with a different perspective. A real sense of maturity have come into me. I am no longer a misanthrope and above all I have started to love myself, once again!

As I entered the year 2011, and looked back all what comes to my mind is what a wonderful year 2010 was!

 

I hope that this year brings in your life everything you ever wished. I hope this year will bring the prosperity to mankind. I hope that this year will bring smile on the millions of sad faces of this country. I hope this year make earth a better place to live on. I hope when I wake up tomorrow sun is as bright as it had been in my dreams. I hope.

I wish you all a very happy and prosperous new year 2011.

IN RETROSPECT: LESSONS OF 2009

2009 has passed. But this year has given me many things and taught me some of the toughest lessons of my life. Following are the 12 most important things I learnt in my previous year: 

1) Nothing lasts forever. Say it happiness, grief, anxiety or excitement. Everything, every feeling, every sentiment and every thought will change sometime. So better enjoy the moment you are happy.

2) Some wounds never heal. Similarly there are few people in your life who come and go leaving their footprints in your mind, heart and soul, and you are never ever the same. 

3) There are some moments in your life when you are busy and start neglecting your friends, your relatives and yourselves. This can be the best time of your life for a moment, but later everyone regrets these moments. So better live in a controlled way, balancing your relations with your work. 

4) There are times when you need to make decisions based on priorities. At those times use your brain rather than heart because you may miss some opportunities that are meant to come only once in a lifetime. So never take decisions emotionally. 

5) There are few people who are meant to be part of your life, no matter how strong you try to push them away. Some relations are completely controlled by destiny, and you don’t have your say in these matter. So accept such people without giving much thought to it. 

6) If people misunderstand you, it’s their problem, not yours. You can try to make them believe in you, you can beg, plead, struggle to explain them but you will never succeed. So better give up already.

7) There is never the last time. NEVER. Mr. Late is always far better than Mr. Never.

8) Chocolate is always the solution for every problem. So eat lot of chocolates.

9) Being innocent never works. You can have a girl who loves your innocent character but life will suck you to the core. So you better be cunning, as well.

10) When it comes to my parents, I will sell my soul and principles, if I have to. 

11) To stay in a sound happy relationship, not being loved is the least of your worries. For maintaining a healthy working relationship, there are lot of other things like acceptability, character, mutual understanding, nature and compatibility. Then only a relation can work. 

Corollary:I am a big flirt. I can't be loyal to any single girl.

12) Proroguing any event is the worst thing that can happen to your work. 

PS: Though I have no resolutions for New Year this time, I will try not to repeat the mistakes I committed in 2009, and learn something from the lessons of 2009.

PS: Some things are better plain, simple and straight, like this post. Writing every post in italics wasn't a good idea.  

PS: Year 2010 can be fun.

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